Just joined looking for opinions. First a little about me. I am a robot technician/programmer with 12years of fabrication experience in manufacturing ag and mining equipment. I very green when it comes to electrical side of robots and these CNC things

I currently just finished installing 3ph 480v power in my shop to run equipment I acquired from my job and am going to try to start my own fabrication business. my goal is to have this table in operation by June of this year I travel globally for work so we will see how that goes lol.
I would like to build a 5x10 table that is capable of running plasma(hypertherm1000) oxy-torch and a 2.2kw spindle. so far my designed gantry by itself is sitting at 83lbs without motors or cables and hoses for gas and torch. I understand that its not ideal to mix plasma and router cause they don't play nice one is a turtle and the other is a spaceship but I don't have funding to build to tables currently.
Table is 5'6" long the X axis where the water pan will be 10'7" long along the y axis I also have a 16in over hang for the router for spindle turning and some other ideas I have I am not done modeling everything. but the gantry should be done minus the z slide was thinking supperz2 or avidcnc's z axis.
I was looking at the candcnc kits but am concerned the gantry will weigh to much for plasma cutting thinner metal?
what should I start looking at for motors, controllers and software to run this?
steppers vs. servo?
mach4 vs Linux ?
best z-axis to handle the weight of a spindle for 2.5d carving?
gear reduction ideas from what I read on here for servos I'm looking to be around 10:1 steppers 3:1
I'm using 23mm linear rails for x axis will be installing bellows on all linear rails to protect from dust and slag.
cross section of gantry is 3x6 aluminum extrusion with 5/8in thick 6061 up wrights.
I'm currently trying to learn fusion 360 and I'm getting my weight's from the software which I pretty close to spot on. The extrusion that I ordered the material weight from 80/20 was only 4oz off of what fusion says.
I've attached some pictures hopefully they come through.
Thank you for the help in advanced. And sorry for the long post.